CORE TO LIFE COACHING & EMPOWERMENT

The truth is... the truth is hard to find

What's the key to a happy, healthy and successful life? Wouldn't we all want to know? Tons of books, vlogs, blogs and gurus seem to have the answer, and we all have one or two friends that think they have it too. The only problem seems to be that there is no one-fits-all solution for anything as complex as life itself. Yes, everyone can reach the personal "sweet spot", a time and place in life to find yourself more happy, healthy, successful and clear-minded than you've ever been before. That great feeling of accomplishment, inner peace and deep satisfaction makes for a great amount of happiness... until the feeling fades and disappears. Why? Because the sweet spot doesn't stick. Why would it? Life is not designed to be predictable and under control, it's not meant to be boxed. It evolves and keeps pushing its boundaries, ever expanding and changing. The same is true for us and our lives, with one major difference: Our time is limited. Our existence is a matter of time and how we use it.

Here is what I think. Our Integrity and Mindset are the results and protectors of the sum of our parts, meaning the "I". The stronger the "I", the stronger our self-empowerment. The stronger our self-empowerment, the higher our chances to grow and to reach our goals. Simple, right? I believe that once we become clear and conscious about (1)who we are, (2)where we are in life, and what our (3)vision for our future is, we can empower ourselves and discover new pathways, take bold steps forward and create anchors along the way, points of stability that keep us on track while we work on our next steps. My Core to Life© coaching & empowerment system includes these and many more principles that will help you to make your vision come true.

It's truly yours if you get it your way

Imagine the following: "You are offered a chance to join a great company, filling a great position. Money is good and future perspective excellent - sounds like sky is the limit! There is a catch, only one really. In order to succeed and to advance your career, you would need to keep playing a role - basically pretending that you are someone else. Well... OK. That might be alright, right? A fair trade. Think about the gain: Increased social status, financial security and perspective, a realistic career growth plan. One in a lifetime chance! Who would say no?

Well... I would, and you should too. Here is how I see it. Simply put, pretending to be someone else doesn't give you a fulfilling life, it's just not yours. It gives you a weird version of the life of someone else. You would also be very busy with "being liked" and "recognized by everyone who matters", which will be very stressful and disruptive for your organic growth process. Want to know why? Because you don't really know what you're doing. Let's be honest. You are working hard, but it's not you and not your life. It's almost like someone else has to validate who you are and how well you do for you, because you can't know. Do you see what I mean? It wouldn't be you, it wouldn't be yours.

My first advice usually ends up being the same: Accept who you are and where you are in life. Do not give into self-deception just to feel better about yourself, and certainly do not sell out. Nothing is worse and more disempowering than self-deception and selling out. If you're not happy with yourself or your life, accept it, define who/where you would like to be and start the change.

Core to Life© is all about you and the change you want to see. And when I say you, I mean the actual you. The only way for me to help you, is to help you to help yourself. So it all has to start and end with you - no lies, no shame, no judgment. Just you.

How about a price that makes a lot of sense?

Value

The first step is to virtually meet and talk about you and the reasons for you to reach out. Who are you, where are you in life and what is your vision for your future? I'll use that information to tell you what I think I can do to help you. We then create a simple value paper, stating the value you want to get out of this and the value I am able to provide.

Commitment

Creating something long lasting takes passion, trust, patience and commitment. The second step is to take a look at our value paper and agree on what it takes to get you there. How much time will we need? All of that goes into our commitment paper. Committing to goals and ideas empowers us to do what we want and need to do.

Pricing

We are now clear about the value and the level of commitment. That means that we both have an idea about the time and capacity we need to invest to make this happen for you. Both papers and your personal preferences will determine the final price tag. Everything gets fully adjusted to your individual situation. Fair, right?

I'm Pegwak, and you might be at the right place

My name is Pegwak Gilani. My parents are Persian and have raised me in Cologne, Germany. I lived in Germany and the Netherlands for most of my life. I am the proud father of a son and a grateful husband of a loving wife. I am blessed to be surrounded by people that I respect and care for, and that their number keeps growing. I have a strategic, creative and open mind, an undeniable drive and thirst for growth, a pure love for life and fellow humans, a dynamic and intense past full of moments and learnings, and, like most of us, an ever-exciting journey ahead of me.

If you feel right about what you've seen and possibly heard so far, absolutely make sure to reach out. You never know if a situation turns into an opportunity if you don't check it out - as carefully or boldly as you want to.

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